I am a trained Waldorf early childhood teacher and have also 
completed training as a "Music Together" teacher (a music and movement 
program for preschoolers and their parents) through the Center for Music
 and Young Children in Princeton, NJ. In addition, I am a Suzuki parent 
and a strong supporter of Suzuki music education. I have been interested
 in comparing the similarities and differences between Suzuki and 
Waldorf pedagogy ever since discovering how much they share in common.
In
 spite of the number of similarities in approach, one fundamental 
difference between the two approaches is regarding the age at which a 
child should begin formal music instruction. Suzuki students are 
encouraged to begin instrumental lessons as early as age two or three. 
On the other hand, students in a Waldorf school do not begin lessons 
with string instruments until third or fourth grade. My personal opinion
 is that Suzuki, for many children, starts too early, and that Waldorf 
schools may start too late. Based on my research and observation, I 
believe that age seven is a more appropriate age for most children to 
begin private music lessons -- for many of the same reasons that make 
seven the ideal age for a child to begin formal, academic learning at 
school, according to Waldorf philosophy.
In Waldorf pedagogy, 
formal academic learning does not begin until, ideally the age of seven.
 This comes after a period of intense growth during the first seven 
years of life, after which, according to Rudolf Steiner, the founder of 
Waldorf education, the child's "etheric" or life forces are freed up for
 more cognitive pursuits. As a child of seven is better able to sit and 
focus on formal "lessons" than a younger child, so a child of this age 
would be better able to focus on formal music instruction, and to be 
capable of practicing. I have questioned many different music teachers -
 Suzuki teachers, traditional music teachers and Waldorf music teachers 
-- on whether there is a great advantage to starting children on an 
instrument as early as three- to five-years old and, by and large, most 
teachers I've talked to seem to agree that children who start when they 
are older (say, seven or eight) are not at a disadvantage; they are 
usually able to catch up quickly with the children who have been taking 
lessons since they were much younger.
Within a few months of 
starting cello, I observed that my seven-year-old caught up to the same 
place as another seven-year-old boy in his class who'd been playing for a
 full two years. My child, I would say, has fairly average musical 
ability. He is musical, but not precocious.
I think it is 
unnatural for a child under seven to be asked to sit down and practice 
an instrument daily, no matter how short or playful the practice 
session. I feel strongly that children under seven should be moving, 
playing and engaged in their imagination without the pressure or stress 
of practicing, or worse, performing. They are learning an enormous 
amount -- taking in the world through their senses, developing their 
imaginations through play and the experience of life. This short and 
precious period of childhood should be free from the pressures of 
performing and feeling the need to please others.
On the other 
hand, most Waldorf schools don't start teaching strings until third or 
fourth grade. I worry that this is too late. Recent brain research 
indicates that there is a musical learning "window" of opportunity that 
closes around the age of nine (similar to the "window" for language 
acquisition). Based upon my research and observation, I believe that it 
is more difficult, though certainly not impossible, for children to 
become proficient at an instrument if they start after the age of nine. 
Waldorf students are, of course, learning to play the pentatonic flute, 
and often the soprano recorder, before the age of nine, which is 
absolutely beneficial and helps to develop the student's musical ear. 
There are many Waldorf teachers who would argue that learning to play a 
stringed instrument or the piano would be inappropriate for a child 
under nine. I do not agree with them. My own experience with my children
 has been entirely rewarding and positive, having started them with 
music lessons at ages seven and eight.
I also recommend waiting 
until a child begins to show an interest in learning to play an 
instrument before offering private music instruction. Children are much 
more likely to be self-motivated when there is a genuine and personal 
interest in learning to play an instrument. I have observed very few 
children who have expressed an interest in learning to play an 
instrument before the age of 5-7. Of course, there are some children who
 really are musically precocious and may, in fact, prove to be 
prodigious musical students. If your child is relentless in demanding to
 learn a particular instrument, I would advise listening to them and 
taking advantage of his interest.
If you decide to pursue music 
education for your child under seven I would highly recommend - no, I 
would BEG you - to find a Suzuki teacher. A good Suzuki teacher, like a 
good Waldorf, teacher, teaches out of imitation and in a playful, 
imaginative way. The emphasis should be on the process, not on the 
product.
Another similarity between Suzuki method and Waldorf 
education is that children are taught to play beautiful music by memory 
and ear before they are able to read music -- just the way Waldorf 
students are able to recite beautiful poetry by heart before they are 
able to read or write. Learning to play music precedes learning to read 
music, just as in human development learning to speak always precedes 
learning to read and write. Learning to read music should not be 
attempted before the child is able to read language.
Readers of Dr. Suzuki's book Nurtured by Love,
 will come across much philosophy that is similar to Rudolf Steiner's. 
(It is interesting to note that both lived in Germany during the same 
period of time.) Dr. Suzuki emphasizes that it is far more important for
 a child to strive to become a beautiful person on the inside, than the 
most technically proficient musician. By nurturing beautiful feelings in
 the child, beautiful music will be produced.
The most important 
thing one can do musically for a child under seven is to expose them to 
lots and lots music, especially the human voice. Sing to them and with 
them all the time! Sing even if you think you can't -- your child will 
not be critical, and will appreciate your effort more than you can 
imagine. I think it's also of great benefit to let children hear live 
music being played so that they learn that music is something that human
 beings make, and are not just mechanical sounds that come out of an 
electronic box. Research indicates that that listening to music (and 
lots of different kinds and tonalities) early in life is what develops a
 child's musical ear. So that even if a child doesn't begin formal music
 instruction until age nine or later, by having been exposed to many 
types of music and different qualities of tone, that child will still 
have developed musically during her early childhood.
Sera Jane 
Smolen, Ph.D., a cellist who has also taught music in a Waldorf school 
and wrote her thesis on a comparison of Waldorf and Suzuki methods, once
 told me that no world-class musician (that is to say, the Yo Yo Ma's 
and the Emanuel Ax's of the world) ever started music instruction later 
than the age of five. This statement is likely to give many parents 
pause. But then she asked me, "Is our goal to raise world-class 
musicians, or Martin Luther Kings?" Do we offer our children music 
lessons because we want to produce a prodigy, or do we do it to nurture a
 love of music in child who may fulfill Dr. Suzuki's vision of bringing 
about world peace through music?